邻里之间讲究礼尚往来,但这种往来不应变成攀比负担。Línlǐ zhījiān jiǎngjiu lǐshàngwǎnglái, dàn zhè zhǒng wǎnglái bù yīng biànchéng pānbǐ fùdān.Neighbours value reciprocal courtesy, but such exchanges should not become a burden of comparison.
你送我水果,我回送你茶叶,礼尚往来嘛。Nǐ sòng wǒ shuǐguǒ, wǒ huí sòng nǐ cháyè, lǐshàngwǎnglái ma.You gave me fruit, I give you tea in return; courtesy goes both ways.
朋友请我吃了饭,下次我也该请他,礼尚往来。Péngyou qǐng wǒ chī le fàn, xià cì wǒ yě gāi qǐng tā, lǐshàngwǎnglái.My friend treated me to a meal, so next time I should treat him; one courtesy deserves another.